I was in the comfort of my bedroom trying to enjoy the cool December breeze, you that feeling of a cold but not so cold breeze caressing your skin, then carries you to far away land that has no worries, responsibilities and all sort.... and of course he was there, with a grin on his face that rendered me helpless, who wouldn't be helpless? he was all a woman could ask for; ''gggrrrrrrr", i was jolted back to my room, ooh my who could that be, it had better be urgent because i needed to go back to my imaginations.
Checking my phone i realized it was anna calling, "Babe ha fa, can you talk" she said as i picked up, but she had an anxiety on her tone that got me worried and awake. "sure i can" i responded eager to hear what had her anxious, "tunde has moved our introduction again", i could hear the pain in her voice, "What!!!" i screamed, i couldn't believe he had the nerve to do that.
Tunde is an Electrical engineer who works in an international company and earns six figures, They dated for three years before he engaged her about 14 months ago. At first he was reluctant to go see her parents, we all tagged it cold feet and advised anna to give him some time to get used to being engaged to her first, which if you ask me wasn't so normal for guys who engage women.
Then weeks turned to months and now a year has gone past and he still hasn't gotten the balls to meet her parents. Anna had been quite understanding with him and didn't want to pressure him, but hell no he was trying all our patience, what was the essence of engaging her if you never had plans of marrying her, besides he is financially stable which is one of the major reasons why men slow down the marriage train.
She started sobbing on the phone, explaining how he started acting up when she confronted him on the stalling of her introduction. "he called me impatient, but am i impatient? i have waited for a year" she went on and on in tears, even on her thoughts of leaving him."if he can stall our introduction, what about our wedding?".
This got me thinking long and hard, what should be the maximum time a girl should wear an engagement ring before it turns to a handcuff ring?
What is worse is when he is not certain it is you before giving you the ring and ends up scaring away potential husbands with that big ring turn cuffs!!.
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